Your circle or group of people who make it to be the ones that you spend most of your time with should be the ones that are always down for you no matter what. Unfortunately that is not the case. There is always one or two people in the group that have other intentions that you may not find out until after you’ve developed and bond that can be hard to break.
The same can be said for your companion or significant other. Whoever you’re deciding to lay down foundations for a future with you should be able to trust them with your heart and soul. There should never be a time you have to question if this person is on your side, or trying to bring you down.
I have had to ask this question more times than I care to admit, but it has happened and the outcome has not been the what I would want it to be. There are those I considered friends that I had to walk away from, and there were those that I thought I could put foundations down with that I also had to cut loose. It doesn’t hurt less no matter which category it is in, but in time you find out that it is for the best for you.
Not all is negative though. There are also people you can really rely on that have your best interest at heart, and want to see you succeed in life. There are those that want to grow with you and build with you, but you must allow them to do so. Happiness is something that everyone wants to obtain, and there are different ways that it can be obtained. setting goals and having ambition is a good first step in the right direction.
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