Hello!! I hope everyone is having a lovely day!! I have been away for a little while and that has a lot to do with a few live events, but I am back and I am in the process of getting back on schedule with my posting and social media. Enough of my rambling onward to today’s post.
You are on a date with your person of interest. Now you two have been seeing each for a little while now and things look like they are starting to get serious. While you and your person of interest are enjoying your time together you start-up a conversation with a question. What your person of interest’s answer has caused some uncertainty to reside in your brain……….
When In This Situation
The scenario above is a normal occurrence, but also the most important step in beginning a relationship with someone. This is the time where you and your relational partner can make sure you both are on the same wave length, and to make sure you are not wasting one another’s time. How can you do this? It’s simple. All you have to do is ask some questions.
When you go to ask questions like this it is crucial that you be general seeing as how you and the person of interest are not in a relationship, but you also want to make sure this is someone you want to be in a relationship with. Here are a few questions as an example….
- Where do you see yourself in () Years?
- What are your views on marriage?
- Do you ever see yourself having a child or children?
- How did things end with your ex?
- What are some deal breakers for you?
- What are some of your dreams and aspirations?
- What are some of your goals in life?
Asking questions like this will definitely give you insight on whether or your person of interest is someone you want to possibly build something with, or just hang out with them in a friendly manner. The questions not only help you decide on who to deal with, but they also give you insight on what it is you are actually looking for in a partner that you never thought you were looking for.
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